At school, my kids are in the middle of a few weeks of state testing. It’s necessary and important, but still stressful for them. Invariably, each one has a couple of nights of anxious thoughts and worries during these days, and I remind them. “You can do it! I know you can.” Especially when they can’t seem to muster the reminders themselves. And the worrisome thoughts deceive. “I know you can.” Don’t we all need that reminder sometimes.